It was quite a surprise; no I mean shock wasn’t it: a shock
to the whole system. I don’t mean a real caldron now, but it’s sure real enough.
Someone offered to give me free laser therapy treatment,
something I had never even heard of before, and I thought sure why not. Before I
knew it she was looking me deep in the eyes and saying you have deep burdens.
Me? I thought I was a happy, peaceful person, but would you believe I started
to cry! Not only that but I was spilling out memories I haven’t been talking
about for years. Again she gave me that deep penetrating look. Have you
forgiven your Dad? I honestly thought I was able to several years ago, but the
next question was harder. Have you forgiven yourself?
I feel like stopping there, but it wouldn't be fair to
either you or me. Forgive myself? How could I? I’m the one to blame for not
being a better mother, I’m the one to blame for every mistake my children have
ever made, every discord between hubby and me, I am the one to blame for been “
“ attractive”" to my Dad. Does it sound familiar? Is it easy to forgive
oneself?
She told me the abuse usually starts at around the age of
five—I told her my flashbacks reached back to my infancy--. She told me to take
that baby me and hold her close, tell her she’s safe now, loved.
I did. I tried at
least, but my the fumes of emotions from that caldron keep wafting before and
the dregs of painful memories are being stirred up.
Today is going to be a full, full day socially. Again. And I
feel like a nervous wreck. What a time to ‘mother’ needy friends.
I need your prayers. ‘She’ said to hold that baby close and
comfort her, but it isn’t enough. I feel like I need to give that tiny Marilyn
to Jesus to comfort and heal, but where is the courage? I feel so wounded, so vulnerable that I don’t
even want to trust her to Jesus’ care.
I was discussing this with a couple of our children
yesterday, and one remarked that Jesus was there
all along. Yes. I’m trying to hand her over to Him, but oh, my, the grown up I needs holding to.
all along. Yes. I’m trying to hand her over to Him, but oh, my, the grown up I needs holding to.
If you’re going through this same battle, have courage,
Jesus is with us even in the valley of the shadow of death, even when the poisonous
mists almost overwhelm us.
Face forward!
Face forward!